Ashling is a 12 year old Cocker Spaniel. She joined us 2, almost 3 years ago. She is my husbands and my first dog together, and her arrival in our home put our cat’s nose firmly out of joint.
We did not set out to find Ashling, in actuality we were at the shelter that night to meet a 5 year old lab. We had both grown up with labs and it had never occurred to us to look at other types of dogs.
I remember seeing Ashling (Ash) online, feeling bad for the senior but moving on to look at other dogs, but that night fate stepped in. In that moment it ensured that we would never look at senior dogs the same way again, no matter what their breed.
When we arrived at the shelter we walked through the dog area looking for the lab. I saw this Ash sitting at the door looking up for anyone who was walking by with a big smile and tail wagging. We read her information, while waiting on the attendant to come back with information about the lab. We found out that the lab was out on a walk, and decided that we would play with the senior dog for a while and give her some attention while we waited. (Can you see where this is going?)
So they brought her into the meeting room where my husband sat on the bench in the room, and I sat down on the floor. She was led into the room, and was a bit confused when the attendant left. But after sniffing around for a minute she came to visit with us.
She walked up to us, did a quick sniff, moved between us, she lay down so she was touching both of us and went to sleep. It was that moment of absolute trust, that we fell in love. It was as if she was saying, finally I am home. She stayed that way for a long time.
We were in love with her in that moment, but we did not know anything about spaniels or deaf dogs. You see Ash had, had such a bad ear infection that she was deaf and when antibiotics could not help they had to perform TECA surgery. This removed her ear canals, but took away the pain of the infection. We decided that we needed to think on it for the night, the adoption counselor gave us her paperwork and we left.
In all my years of being a pet owner, that is my biggest regret. Leaving Ash there for even one more night than was necessary.
That night by the time we got to bed we knew that when adoptions opened the next day that we would be there to get her. I don’t think I slept more than 10 minutes that night, or paid attention to anything going on the next morning while waiting for the shelter to open. It was particularly difficult as we were with my family for a birthday brunch, for me…
When the time came for us to head back to the shelter, we invited the family to come and meet her. We had quite a convoy heading to the shelter that morning. I remember getting there 5 minutes before adoptions opened for the day, with my husband pulling into the space to park, while I clutched the paper work, jumped out of the car and ran all the way to the adoption desk.
All I said as I put the paper work down was “She’s Ours”. Now this may seem a little over dramatic, but when you find the dog that was meant to be part of your life, sometimes the drama doesn’t matter.
That is when the rest of the family caught up with me, and we got to see her again, while my family got to meet her for the first time. We spoke with her adoption coordinator and got to take her home an hour later. She slept the whole way home that day, or at least until we got to the pet store. There she was taken around like the queen she was and got spoiled with multiple beds, jackets, food bowls, treats, and toys.
Ash is still with us and snoring next to me on the couch while I write this.
To be continued…